Most people have trouble separating human emotional attraction and bonding with love. I tried everything reading books, to alcohol. Look forward to hearing from you Linda – thank you again for your kind words and interest in this hurdle in my life. Thank you for sharing this story of love and personal growth. And in return. It was heart warming to read your post and also life affirming. But I held on, to myself only to realize you are the only one who can help yourself. I dont know what i will do if something like this happens to me. So even if they choose to be unhappy, I would still love them. It simply exist. You can’t control what others do but you can control how you respond and how that makes you feel. Azeez, I GOT TERRY BACK. Until now! This love has been with you since conception. You slowly move past that by taking actions. Please help me Mr. Shapiro. Any websites you could recommend to read up on about how to get over this properly would be really helpful. God Bless You.. You also inspired me, your words are awesome “All I know is that, “it doesn’t matter if you get fooled, or be hurt…what matters is that you loved at all and you never judged the person by his faults or by any chance thru earthly measures.. Love is Divine. They must not love another. So accept that yes, time is the great healer. I never judge other people. Just try to understand our perspective. Thank you. Would you still care about them and want the best for them? as for lovers, well , they come and go too and baby,i hate to say it, most of them, actually prettty much all of them are going to break your heart, but you cant give up because if you give up, youll never find your soulmate. Yes, I understand being in that place. There’s a lot more to learn. The word love is the most overused word in the English language. But I believe that if you truly loved a person, no matter what and who s/he is, you won’t do anything that will hurt him/her. Denial would be much worse for you believe me. so, when she began to fall in love with the other guy, I ask her to return. I wish for you to go on a journey this year. You say they see this as a cruel thing to have done. From my experience, this was not a choice. Those who know me in person will attest to the truth of this though some of them think I’m an alien because I never judge people and accept everyone unconditionally. I, now, believe that love is literally unconditional. Calling Aoi’s Code when you chose Miyuki as the girl you Love at the end and restarting to the rooftop will connect you to her to which she tells you “Shinichi She will move mountains to help you because she truly loves you. Let’s revisit what love is. This decision was not made lightly on her part. This is unconditional love where a BF has their friends back no matter what. Those, I could give you a list if you are interested. This magnificent love inside of you is waiting to be asked to forgive all those who have hurt you and harmed you in any way. What you are describing is an excessive, dependent need for someone that is so extreme you can’t love another. I am going to ask you to do two things which may appear contradictory at first. It is always there, always a part of us. Loving someone more than ourselves and wanting their happiness above our own. I can’t change the world’s use of the word love at this point. "It was a love song to my craft. I wrote this as a post on my Facebook page November 10, 2013. It was scary. Mature Content Description. He never failed to say everyday how much he love and miss me that he would like to go here in dubai because he said that its really hard and very painful for him away from me.So my world shattered as I can’t believe he did this to me. That marriage lasted 9 years until she finally divorced him which may have coincided with her reaching a level of confidence and work success. What if the person ypu truly love is the same person who will make you miserable? the world offers itself to your imagination, And I wondered, “Why NOT?” is this something we collectively really don’t want to hear about?? You understand it and have personally experienced it. I always believed in unconditional love but never realized the extent of it. Go back and read the song I wrote and you will see the complete story in that song. I don’t know how I found him and i cant remember. Your questions are good ones. How did she receive this gift of ‘unconditional love’? I may never have My Love Story and have accepted this. If love can go away, it is not unconditional. After a month, he confessed that he is falling in love with me, I’m so shocked on what he said but it somehow gives me joy and calmness because I think I feel the same way too. We spent good time, still she doesn’t feel same way for me (she told me but I feel care, love when we are together) and going to marry some guy of her parents choice soon (we can’t be together because of different caste). When we come from pure love, we love regardless. Now this story does expand my capacity to imagine bigger loves and lives than I had before.. Every single word of this book touched my heart. (that was ’79). People would offer to help me to leave, or ask me why I stay and could never understand when I would try to explain. We do have control over how we respond to these events. For her to act on her inner voice would destroy two marriages and she knew how it would affect me. This is the way it is. There are many relationships that involve deep emotional attachments where no actual love exist. If you had asked me a year earlier what I would do under such a circumstance, I’m sure my answer would have been different than what I actually did. but just remember, some came, some go, the ones that stay with you though everything- theyre your true best friend dont let go of them. Without expectations. I do have a day job that pays the bills! It must be a power stronger than any state of being. I understand that not all people have nor had this kind of love…but it is God’s given love. Totally, Fully. And yes, you will feel a depth of love like you have never felt before. I talked to her, but she resisted my attempts for a date, because she thought that office romance would never last. Thank you Yvonne. Unconditional love frees you to love and frees you to become all you were meant to be. You have grown immensely and continue to grow. This is a story about a tomboy/Agressive girl who lived most of her life in conflict with her tiwin brother. Love is the most overused word on the planet earth. Blessings. I wish I could tell you that I was able to face each obstacle with grace, but the truth is that I often chaffed, cried, screamed at the Universe, lamented and felt unbearably sorry for myself. You are blessed. I know I have always loved her. To live with your partner while there telling someone else in front of you that they love them thats hard, The purpose i stayed there was its taught me. Loving is immense joy. I have also had many people finally forgive those who hurt them through my help. We are the ones who can’t be there for our loved ones because of this terribleness that lives within us. We do not see hurt or pain inflected on us as a crime that calls out for justice. On the one hand, I want you to dig much deeper into why you did what you did. In that rememory, that is often hard to hear because of the noise of the world, we are whole, healthy, and completely perfect. That’s what I wanted to say. Accept this gift given to you by the Creator and become the truly awesome, loving, beautiful soul that you are twenty four hours a day every day. It means that you will unconditionally love everyone you feel love for whether it is a platonic friend, family member or lover. If we truly love, we will always love that person regardless of what they do or what they want. 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Your pain has no affect on them so you are the only one who is hurt. If a parent can unconditionally love a child that is not of their blood, why can’t adults act the same toward each other more often? From her background, she was wise way beyond her years. Your questions are really more about you than about me. It is not something that can really be analyzed at all in spite of all I have written about it. What makes these loves so agonizing is that they are not just personal choices, they pull so many other lives into their wake. Thank you so much for your kind and sincere thoughts. Though we can’t be together, I’m often wondering how he is doing and hoping that he is find. Love is more of an energy…energy that nourish my soul. It’s not a choice you pick at a fork in the road….it exists forever.” Is this just an ideal we strive for but can never attain or is it possible for a human to actually love someone unconditionally, love them even if they do something we hate or they decide to leave us? Thank You for this beautiful Words.. May all your dreams and wishes come true, God Bless you.. It has been a process in my healing. and suffering. You move on from where you are and get unstuck by having a goal and taking some action everyday to move toward the goal. Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air, There is a joyous, blissful, light filled future waiting for you Carol. To do that, she walked across a 50 mile stretch of land all by herself leading up to the Austrian border that had been planted with mines by the Soviets. Unconditional love is such a dynamic part of our lives.I shared your story because I believe it’s very important that others like myself understand we are not alone in our thinking. more than what I shoud have, which ultimately led me to some physical altercations with her. My Blog i love you to death true story They began an affair that lasted until shortly after she divorced at which point she realized she couldn’t spend her life seeing a married man who had a wife and kids to raise. Love Story is a 1970 American romantic drama written by Erich Segal, who was also the author of the best-selling 1970 novel of the same name.It was produced by Howard G. Minsky and directed by Arthur Hiller and starred Ali MacGraw and Ryan O'Neal, alongside John Marley, Ray Milland, and Tommy Lee Jones in his film debut in a minor role. Maybe those in the healing arts fields encounter so many people like this that they begin to believe all people would respond in the same way. How many times should we forgive and up to what extent? It may be that this relationship and the love you feel concerning her has been placed in your life journey to prepare you for the one you are supposed to be with. after we decided to reunited, she begin to accept me as I am. What was she like, how had you met, what was going on in your life?? I can understand your raising these questions. If you answer that question no, what you are feeling is not love. This is not the same as the concept of unconditional. Without fear. If you can answer that question yes, you love unconditionally. I say to this day that sleeping is a sport to me! It satisfies our moral urge. You don’t mention anything about spirituality. I know these love will last, for how long I don’t know. There are so many happy moments with him. Your insights is really helpful as i am mendinh now my broken heart. You have had some very painful and disturbing things happen to you that you had no control over. Remember, you are love and have always been love. You must understand what happened completely, identify where you need to improve and start taking action to make it happen. Thank you very much for your kind words of wisdom – I really appreciate it. I didn’t want anyone else. You may be totally unmotivated right now. But he left me, so I felt something that I thought is worst than anything else. No matter how it hurts not to the point of begging and not loosing my dignity, I still love her dearly . I can't say too much because spoilers, going blind will make the ending more satisfaying. But then, when i searched the answer inside me, i know i’m happy for simply feeling the energy of love inside me. I can’t wait to be together again. Their desires, wants, likes, dislikes, emotions and ego overpower their inner voice. She was 9 years older than me and her daughter was 13 at the time. You describe her as just leaving while you were in a state of complete incomprehension that anything like this was possible. I was able to move on from this event and take control of my life, my choices, my future by making certain choices about how I viewed what happened and the person who caused it. This is what we all should be striving for. Read the full 18 U.S.C. There are some people who simply do not understand this and flat out disagree with me. Because they are everything they are perfect in all ways i cannot choose this, i did not, i wish this was not, it is though. I was not confident enough to pursue as was needed. When I realized that I could still love and forgive someone who had caused me much pain, I was suddenly free. It was very hard, I cant be angry with him or hate him. I don’t want to do anything that would cause her to not want me. But life is strange and tough, especially relationships, which go through peaks and troughs, that is when we start to question whether we are with the right person. Through the many years that I have worked on this book project and especially the conversations I have had with thousands of people on the Facebook Page where I actually write this book http://www.facebook.com/lifeisaforkintheroad , I have learned a great deal about the questions you have raised. I wrote an in-depth guide to how reconnect with your partner, it might prove helpful to some couples: I have at times been challenging, sick, lazy, and I weigh almost twice what I weighed when we met. It is about who you really are. This is a true love story on many levels. If you don’t feel that happiness, then you didn’t really love them. My wanting someone to be happy is not a condition I place on them. The brain study you cited in your blog about what happens when people see a photo of someone they love is not about unconditional love. I think it’s not enough to want good for the one whom you love. I went on throug the years thinking it was my very own fault for losing her and I still do. There intentions may have been good but what they said just had nothing to do with what I needed or how I had to figure these things out. Love is a connection of soul…that even separated or fell apart, it still grows..it never fades, it never dies…Love is immeasureable… It’s beyond any words can imagine or define…”. Some never learn. And though I’m always saying that someday I will find somebody to replace him, I secretly hope that he will come back to me someday. I feel the same way about my children as you do about your ex-spouse…no matter what they do or don’t do…no matter which choices they make…they are ALWAYS my children and I will always love them…no matter what. Save my name, email, and website in this browser for the next time I comment. That is what the twin flame process comes to achieve in your life, it will help you birth real love, unconditional love for the other, for yourself and for the world. What she did was wrong as she promised you in the wedding vows “till death do us part.” She promised to forsake all others and cling only to you, her husband. youll never that half that make you hole and that goes for everything , just because you fail ones, dosint mean your gonna fail at everything. Did she only want to be married to you as long as you were exactly the way you were when you first married? You must have JavaScript enabled in your browser to utilize the functionality of this website. I am in love with my best friend. I also opened and found blessings and continued to dive into the river of love. Thank you for sharing your story Sir. All characters, models, actors, actresses and other persons that appear in any visual depiction of actual sexually explicit conduct are at least eighteen years of age or older. So, we became friends, we became really close to each other, I realized that he’s so fun to be with, he became my study buddy and food buddy. I don’t pretend to know..and I believe you. It is that conditioning that seperates us. He never stopped writing me, sharing with me all the twists and turns of his life..he was a gifted writer, artist and lover of music and poetry..he headed a foundation for the exchange of art between Berlin and many cultures, especially China, Vietnam and revolutionary artists the world over. It makes me do many things, get up early in the morning, prepare good food, think of the better ways how to teach him to read and so on. You say you never judge people and accept everyone unconditionally, well in a perfect world your belief would work wonders but not in this world that we live in, how can you not judge the terrorist that cuts the chest of another human being and pulls out his heart and eats it? A beautiful and touching letter. May my friend , my beloved who transformed me so much, be happy wherever she is , whatever she does. And I was free to live my life to the fullest. How can say you have loved someone for 30 years and then because they didnt do what pleased you… hate them and wish them harm!. The person doesn’t matter to me, but it’s the “soulful connection thru love”, something that completes me spiritually, that matters.. Even though you don’t know how or why right now because your love has blinded you, she in some unknown way contributed to this. She will try to help you every way possible and seek outside help. I have noticed you don’t monetize your blog, don’t waste your traffic, you can earn additional bucks every month. Regards That is because, in a state of true love, we do not judge other people…ever. but as the sun goes down, we realize that we are meant to be together. And, of course, I also began to discover that my anger and pain was only hurting me. I knew the complete back story I have shared with you because she told me all about it. Thank you. But this is very hard to take. So they say I’m wrong about love. It is good that are aware of what happened with you and can be honest about it. It is pure. So, it’s hard for me to forget her and I don’t want to. Reading it I find myself not liking her or him for doing what they did…but they don’t come alive to me as flesh and blood people. As we learn and grow, we become a better person and are now attractive to someone else’s love that would not have been attracted to us before. If they want to be an axe murderer, we still love them. On one evening after work, she was supposed to pick me up at the Naval base, waiting for a few hours, I walked back to our apartment and found a sorriful goodbye letter attached to the TV screen, some of the words said “your six pack is in the fridge.” Knowing now that I was becoming what I hated most, my stepfather. That forgiveness NEVER made the headlines as do other stories of equal horror. Love is not a about human frailty and weakness. The couple may not want to remain together but, if they loved unconditionally, that love will remain forever. I wondered if it would ever go away, this feeling. I know this is an old topic, but it definitely was (and is) a very powerful story/background that I do admire. bless divinity and bless god. Now you know the full story behind that song as well as more about both of them. Most parents love their children unconditionally, even step children and ones they adopt. Are you going to listen to audio CD’s, read books, go to a therapist, take classes, join clubs or group? Don, there is a question – if your wife would have asked you to let her go, would you let her marry another man? And I am sure there are one or two people who can do that…they are called saints! robinsonbuckler[*at*]yahoo[*dot*]com.” , he will always come to your aid, Mr Robinson solved my Relationship problem just in 3 days, Note: Beware of duplicate of this very comment with a different spell caster name and contact. First, you have to go much deeper, as deep as you can to take apart everything that went on inside you during the time you let yourself go and didn’t pick up on what your loved one was telling you about how all this was beginning to make her feel. the email to contact him is lordazeez1990(at)hotmail(dot)com if you need your ex back, it’s true unconditional love does exist I love the father of my kids.more than you can imagine I would give my life for him, I broke up with my boyfriend almost 3 months ago. It is our soul, our spirit, our essence, our connection to the Creator. so keep your head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because lifes a beautiful thing and theres so much to smile blouit day 1 what you give is priceless day 2 there are more ways to be happy than anyone can imagine day 3 why settle for good when your life can be grat day 4 a wish is a powerful thing day 5 say yes to less stress day 6 you dont have to be perfect too be beautiful day 7 give yourself a compliment its true . After the spells, a miracle happened, my husband came home. We were on the same wavelength. I simply could not leave my children ( a la Ingrid Bergman) and I cld not live without him. The real question here is not whether a person can unconditionally love another. thank you thank you thank you from the bottom of my heart. While I have only shared one experience from my life in this story, this is not the only time where I have felt unconditional love for another and, as a result, acted in a way that would not be considered the norm. Am emback on film titled: A tears of love, as I read ur love words it brings more ideas for me. Not to say she was an angel but I loved er all the same. You are not alone. If your form of love requires the condition that they must return to you someday, you really didn’t love them. Yes, I know how difficult it is to forgive. True love means loving each other until the very end. This is a world that none of us would be very interested in inhabiting, really. It is my feeling that too many marriages end up having serious problems and end because the level of commitment is not at a spiritual state. Indeed, Very nicely put friend I’m so thankful I’ve found you! He’s not even attracting to me, basically he’s not the type of guy that I really want, I just like him to be my friend and boom! No matter what anyone does to me or says to me, I will still love them and want the best for them even if I don’t like their choices. So yes, it is possible to love unconditionally even when things go poorly in a relationship. It simply recognizes that human beings are imperfect, flawed and will do bad things. I’m not sure, but at least I know that my love was unconditional and will burn through eternity. What will help you to improve in each area you have identified? Not then, not ever. I was never really young even when I was chronologically young. We seem to have great difficulty taking our feelings about our children and realizing that we can feel the same way about another adult who is not a blood relative. Don – There are many of us who have come to an intimate knowledge of unconditional love in much the same way that you did. Make more money? Today I am placed here some sad short love stories of some true of fictitious characteristics. Watching Smythe, I finally realize her motive for telling her story. People often find unconditional love when they are betrayed or suffer. Then, when I was already at home, Marc texted me that he has something to tell. Once again i say a very big thanks to you sir for helping me to win the lottery,and please sir keep your good work because people need your help in their lives.Contact Dr Kuq Ya with this email address it was what i used to reach him and i know you all know how an email address should look like to be valid, make this one look like that to make the email valid. Okay! You don’t have to feel like it. I loved someone who left me and hurt me terribly. Once you have arrived at a state where you can love unconditionally, then everyone you feel love for will be unconditional. But the deeper foundations that are needed for a marriage to go 50 blissful years are not there. Thank you for the wonderful story. That would negate the previous 11 years as if they never existed. over the prairies and the deep trees, I was meant to read this post to help me clear up the clouds that hinder me to see the things I must realize…, I’m only 22, and I can say I do loved unconditionally.. I see you don’t monetize your site,you can earn some extra money, just search in google for: Just like me…i love my fiance so much even if he always hurt me physically and emotionally. Now, for the first time since I started collecting stories from others, I am going to share an inner voice experience of my own that first awakened me to what true unconditional love means. It is a spiritual state, not an emotion. Many people would have the same doubts you do because they have not experienced what I have nor witnessed it in others. Indeed it is, in fact, the opposite. この作品は日本国外専用となっており、日本国内への使用は法律により固く禁じられております。Not for use inside of Japan. It can’t be second or third for either one. Thank you so much for sharing this. It is not about the human side of us through our brain and nervous system. My reaction surprised me and inspired me. This will prepare you to meet someone who is ready for the new, improved Shane. Love to you, Shane. Then concerning ur songs it go along with the film am written. Your definition was happiness for your partner. They are swept up in it. I feel as if i dont know where to go in life now and have no sense of direction. If you experience true love where the love inside of you, the spirit that you are, connects with the spirit of another, you would never, ever question that love. This is a subject I discuss a lot in my personal life and with my friends. We have absolutely zero control as humans over the state of love. If they would rather be with another, you let them go. Whatever it takes, focus your energy and effort on improving you. What was her actual level of commitment to the relationship? Thank you for sharing these insights. It was probably the happiest 3 weeks of my life..and upon my return to the States, I was in a misery such as I had never experienced before. We were married for 17 yrs and had 4 children together. And part of me is happy, and I’m so thankful you wrote this. I see your pain in your writings. Thankyou for sharing, it was an incredible read. Share your fork in the road story so we can learn more about how real life works by using our confidential form. Sad Story #22. Outwardly he forgave me, and was relieved that I was not leaving..but beneath it all, things were brewing. All my friends told me she was no good and would say unkind things about her. They must do what we want. Out of blue, he broke me up saying he has too much pressure and he never contact or reply my messages. After reading your article I now realize it was the ATTACHMENT in both situations. Everyday that you continue to dwell with anger, hurt, pain and more over what happened to you back them, they win and you lose. All those psychological games they play….you know….you know. It still affects me today. Now for a moment of reflection. People say dont blame yourself for break up but I know myself we had our faults but I know i could hev done more…and thats wht i’ll regret. It was people misusing the term love who don’t even understand what it really is or who they really are. What a beautiful and heartwarming story. It has led you to be the person you are today, a fuller, more feeling, more compassionate, and more completely developed human being. Thanks Don. Lord bless you. From now i have deeply understand,that if you true “LOVE”!! It features beautiful artwork, music, and Japanese voice acting with full English text.